Not one, as you might wish. Alert of me being serious and maybe, a bit
angry. I suppose I have thought about this quite a while, I have just not been
able to express myself. Today when I visited my dearest website Facebook I noticed
that one of my “friends” had posted this particular quote by Marilyn Monroe; "Being single doesn't mean you're weak,
it means you're strong enough to wait for what you deserve" and the post had over 50 likes, mainly by girls
of course. This got me pissed off. I mean why would being single mean that you
are weak in first place? I was hoping that we didn´t need some dead person to
remind girls of something obvious. Monroe had the right to say what she said,
but everyone should realize that she lived in a completely different kind of
world where girls were expected to get married young and stay home with the
children.
It is true that the media and some idiots are trying hard to point out
that there is something wrong with us if we are incapable of finding the true love.
I blame the Romantic fucking movies of
letting girls have an idea of love where everything has a happy ending... Guess what? There is no such thing as eternal
love, maybe towards food but not within a relationship. Just take a look at
your parents; are they all blinded by one another? Didn´t think so either.
When girls see a pretty girl with her Oh- so-perfect-boyfriend, they
usually think that if they were as pretty or as hilarious as the girl they
could have a life similar. Bullshit, it’s even a miracle that two people meet
and happen to like each other and on top of that are able to express how they
feel
I am aware of me being, as
always, negative and cold and whatever. But what I am trying to say is that we
shouldn´t be waiting for a better future to just jump into our arms. Instead of imagining some unrealistic fairy tale
in your heads you should be honest to the person who most deserves it, YOU!
Don´t look in the mirror feeling sorry about you and wasting time on someone
who obviously doesn´t give fuck of your existence. Yes, I´m harsh but the most
of the time people don´t spend time thinking about you. The thing is that we
have to believe in the importance of ourselves and understand that life isn’t about
finding, but about creating ourselves.
The next time that friend of my grandma or the weird guy in the
supermarket asks me why I don’t have a boyfriend I won´t be all “Well I don´t
know” and act all awkward I will ask the person why he didn´t eat donkey for
breakfast.
Great things happen when we least expect them, but also bad things
follow the same pattern.
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